The Baddie Geek...

You know, it's amazing how we work our whole lives just to earn a paycheck to pay bills. Have you ever just really paid attention to the life you're at the moment? It's crazy. We work our whole lives for nothing. We slave away at a desk all day and have nothing to show for it except a bad back, extra pounds, and a low tolerance for patience. IS THIS THE AMERICAN DREAM??? Not being able to live life on your own terms? I hate it here lol. It's definitely more to life than that. Well, guess what love? We don't have to deal with any of it. Now granted, we do need a job to buy nice pretty shit that keeps feeling and looking exquisite. However, if we just have to work, why not do it how we want? Why not live life how it should be lived, UNAPOLOGETICALLY! With No Regrets! If it's time to change something, why not just go ahead and change it? I bet you're like, "Nah Bih, I can't just decide to get up and change my life." My response is WHY THE FUCK NOT

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! How's this year going for you? That great huh? Sure.😸 If you're anything like me you're excited and nervous about this year. It's the beginning of fresh start, a new journey, a new step into the unknown. 🙌🏽This year is all about you. That's right be selfish this year. We only catering to ourselves and our dreams this year. Aim higher. Do whatever the hell you want to do this year. Less talking and more doing. 🤐 This is the year to finally go after your dream, that life, that goal, that healing and that love that you've always wanted.🙏 You have 365 days to put in the effort to move a step forward from where you been. Work your ass off and just do it . Just write your goals out and go for it. You don't have to tell anyone, anything. Just fucking do it. Also, if you're ashamed of it, keep it to yourself but still do it. Risk it... What do you have to lose ?🧐 If you feel like you are going to fail, it is ok. You will never learn,

I know I'm not the most inspirational person in the world and I am definitely not a spiritual guru. However, I do know sometimes we all want a spiritual boost and want a little peace when it comes to the many struggles of life. 😪Shit can definitely get real. Here's a few tips to keeping your inner peace in the time of a storm: Pray, Pray, Pray - 🙏🏽Morning, Noon, Night...Talk to God and get everything off your chest, no matter how embarrassed, horrible, or weird it may be. It's best to just get it out. Read Your Bible -  📖I'm not going to lie, I don't read my bible everyday. However, I do try, even if its just one scripture. Sometimes that one scripture is all you need to get through the day. Also, write in your bible. It can help can you refer and break down scriptures and keep up with what you're reading. I can honestly say I need a new bible. Unfortunately, I write and highlight in my bible so much you would think I need to be a mental home.🙄 Go to

Speak Good Things And Good Things Will Come, Speak Bad things and Bad Things Will Happen...🤷🏾‍♀️ "The tongue has the power of life and death"-Proverbs 18:21 Ok, so I'm just gonna get straight to the point. If you think negative, then things will become negative.🤦🏽‍♂️A lot of times we don't notice how much our thought process can hinder our success. For instance, have you ever studied for a test, for days, and still failed? It's probably because you didn't believe in yourself. Most of the time, we let our self doubt fuck up everything we have planned. Coming up, my mom would always ask me how I felt about taking a test, finishing  any project, or when I finished anything major and had to be graded on it. If I felt like I did good, of course, I would've said "Great." However, if I felt I completely fucked shit up I would've said "ok." Don't get me wrong, preparing does help. However, I can fully say that if you don't

Nobody said life would be easy girl....In fact, it can get incredibly hard...like to the point where you get pretty discouraged and just want to give up on everything...Trust me, I know the feeling...Anyway, here's some things you can do to stay calm, grounded, and focused... Take A Mental Health Day🙇🏽‍ ♀️ - That's right, take an off day from school or work to focus on yourself. On this particular day, you can turn your phone off, lay in bed  and eat pizza and ice cream, pig out, turn your phone off, put it on DND, and just chill.🙅🏽📱 Take A Moment to BREATHE😚 - So what if you can't take the day off. Often times when we feel shitty, we experience an anxiety attack, like everything is going wrong at one time, and there no way it can be stopped. Listen, breathe in, breathe out. Repeat it. Take a step back, play a game on your phone, drink some water, and then go back to work.😌😅😂 Be Childish👧🏽 - After a long day of being an adult, you gotta admit it will feel go

Whether you're at the nail shop, on the beach, at work, bored, feeling some type of way or just looking for something to read, I have a list of books you might enjoy....😌 The Bible For Black Girls By Chelsea Claverie- Definitely, my favorite book of all time. She pretty much gives you the game page after page. If you buy this book I promise you your glow up will be on 10. Best book to read after a bad break up.😎 The Perks of Being A Wallflower By Stephen Chbosky- Ok, so I'm probably being biased because I loved the movie, but I did enjoy the book as well.  The cool part about it is that the book is actually written as a letter to you. If I were you I would buy the book first and then watch the movie. P.S. Its lowkey a tear jerker!📚   Milk and Honey By Rupi Kaur- Most definitely a book for the soul honey. A great book of poetry. If you ever experienced any type of pain, break up, romance, or tragedy, this book is for you. Honestly, it's really heavy stuff. I