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How Holding On to Toxic People Can Hinder Your Blessings.....♥️🀦🏽‍♂️πŸ™…πŸ½πŸ€”

It's Ok To Let People GO...

If you don't learn anything else from me, KNOW THIS, IT IS OK TO LET PEOPLE GO, ☝🏽Sometimes we tend to hold on to people because of our relationship with them. This can be with significant others, platonic friends, friends with benefits or family. Unfortunately, I believe sometimes we can put up with other people's bullshit because of our history or emotions towards them.πŸ˜ͺ I hate to say it, but we can be extremely blind to shit. We keep running to them in our attempt to help them but we are only hurting ourselves along the way.  You cant keep tagging along with that dude who only calls you when he's bored or who's only fucking with you because of your head game or street rank.πŸ™„ You can't keep hanging out with your family when they're only running their mouths to their friends or your enemies about whatever the fuck you got going. You can't keep running towards the dude who claims he doesn't want a relationship but leads you on every time. Furthermore, you can't continue being a good friend to someone who has proven themselves to be SHITTY or fake af towards you. You just cant.🀦🏽‍♂️ The shit is for the Birds. Just STOP it. Leave it alone.πŸ™…πŸ½ LET IT GO. ❤️What you allow is what will continue....and you're better than what you're allowing. ❤️Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I haven't been here because Girl, listen I been in this situation plenty of times and can honestly tell you that YOU will only end up hurt. You're gonna find yourself crying, angry or mad because the person you're fighting to be in life has turned you into someone you don't want to be. You're going to feel like you owe a person the world or your loyalty because of how you feel or how they make/made you feel. I GET IT, BUT FUCK THAT. You have to realize that sometimes people do come with an expiration date and they do go bad🀒. Therefore, it's only right that you move on. From experience, I can truly tell you letting mfers go will only open doors for you.😌 It's like losing something once, but gaining it back twice. I know you're going to hurt and some of you might be scared of that but trust me when I say ITS WORTH IT. EMBRACE THAT SHIT. Realize who tf you are.☝🏽Cut them off. Block their number. Stop responding to them. Pray for them. It's possible to love people from a distance so you don't get hurt. ☝🏽There is no reason you should be around someone who you know deep down is completely unhealthy for you or bringing you down. If you loved yourself, you would do better, for yourself. You're only blocking your blessings by holding on to dead weight πŸ’€. Sometimes we can become so caught up in trying to please or take care of someone else that we aren't focusing on ourselves. Pull it together ma. Let toxic people go and let blessings flow. You deserve so much more. Before you know it, you'll have a new number, a new job, a new car, and a new peace of mind. I know nothing heals overnight but take it one day at a time.⏰



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