The Baddie Geek...

I know I'm not the most inspirational person in the world and I am definitely not a spiritual guru. However, I do know sometimes we all want a spiritual boost and want a little peace when it comes to the many struggles of life. 😪Shit can definitely get real. Here's a few tips to keeping your inner peace in the time of a storm: Pray, Pray, Pray - 🙏🏽Morning, Noon, Night...Talk to God and get everything off your chest, no matter how embarrassed, horrible, or weird it may be. It's best to just get it out. Read Your Bible -  📖I'm not going to lie, I don't read my bible everyday. However, I do try, even if its just one scripture. Sometimes that one scripture is all you need to get through the day. Also, write in your bible. It can help can you refer and break down scriptures and keep up with what you're reading. I can honestly say I need a new bible. Unfortunately, I write and highlight in my bible so much you would think I need to be a mental home.🙄 Go to

Speak Good Things And Good Things Will Come, Speak Bad things and Bad Things Will Happen...🤷🏾‍♀️ "The tongue has the power of life and death"-Proverbs 18:21 Ok, so I'm just gonna get straight to the point. If you think negative, then things will become negative.🤦🏽‍♂️A lot of times we don't notice how much our thought process can hinder our success. For instance, have you ever studied for a test, for days, and still failed? It's probably because you didn't believe in yourself. Most of the time, we let our self doubt fuck up everything we have planned. Coming up, my mom would always ask me how I felt about taking a test, finishing  any project, or when I finished anything major and had to be graded on it. If I felt like I did good, of course, I would've said "Great." However, if I felt I completely fucked shit up I would've said "ok." Don't get me wrong, preparing does help. However, I can fully say that if you don't

Nobody said life would be easy girl....In fact, it can get incredibly hard...like to the point where you get pretty discouraged and just want to give up on everything...Trust me, I know the feeling...Anyway, here's some things you can do to stay calm, grounded, and focused... Take A Mental Health Day🙇🏽‍ ♀️ - That's right, take an off day from school or work to focus on yourself. On this particular day, you can turn your phone off, lay in bed  and eat pizza and ice cream, pig out, turn your phone off, put it on DND, and just chill.🙅🏽📱 Take A Moment to BREATHE😚 - So what if you can't take the day off. Often times when we feel shitty, we experience an anxiety attack, like everything is going wrong at one time, and there no way it can be stopped. Listen, breathe in, breathe out. Repeat it. Take a step back, play a game on your phone, drink some water, and then go back to work.😌😅😂 Be Childish👧🏽 - After a long day of being an adult, you gotta admit it will feel go

Whether you're at the nail shop, on the beach, at work, bored, feeling some type of way or just looking for something to read, I have a list of books you might enjoy....😌 The Bible For Black Girls By Chelsea Claverie- Definitely, my favorite book of all time. She pretty much gives you the game page after page. If you buy this book I promise you your glow up will be on 10. Best book to read after a bad break up.😎 The Perks of Being A Wallflower By Stephen Chbosky- Ok, so I'm probably being biased because I loved the movie, but I did enjoy the book as well.  The cool part about it is that the book is actually written as a letter to you. If I were you I would buy the book first and then watch the movie. P.S. Its lowkey a tear jerker!📚   Milk and Honey By Rupi Kaur- Most definitely a book for the soul honey. A great book of poetry. If you ever experienced any type of pain, break up, romance, or tragedy, this book is for you. Honestly, it's really heavy stuff. I

It's Ok To Let People GO... If you don't learn anything else from me, KNOW THIS, IT IS OK TO LET PEOPLE GO, ☝🏽Sometimes we tend to hold on to people because of our relationship with them. This can be with significant others, platonic friends, friends with benefits or family. Unfortunately, I believe sometimes we can put up with other people's bullshit because of our history or emotions towards them.😪 I hate to say it, but we can be extremely blind to shit. We keep running to them in our attempt to help them but we are only hurting ourselves along the way.  You cant keep tagging along with that dude who only calls you when he's bored or who's only fucking with you because of your head game or street rank.🙄 You can't keep hanging out with your family when they're only running their mouths to their friends or your enemies about whatever the fuck you got going. You can't keep running towards the dude who claims he doesn't want a relationship but le

Some things you can do if your summer gets pretty stressful (which it shouldn't be girl, because lets be honest  ITS SUMMER DUH)🌞 P.R.A.Y. - First things first, prayer will definitely help you. Getting your mind right with God can bring such a greater peace than you would be able to bring your self. However, if you don't pray, you can also meditate. Meditation, just keeps you in touch with yourself and your surroundings. You can sit in a quiet place and just focus on breathing, the room, outside or whatever. Just try it for like 5-30 min and see. 🙏🏽🙇🏽‍♀️  Read- Secondly, reading is pretty self explanatory. Personally, I love to read and will probably suggest some good books in a later post. If you want a true mental Glo up you should definitely read. Not only will it make time fly by, but you could learn something and become smarter. (I actually learned that from article, HA!) Read anything, the Bible, Fiction, Non-Fiction, History, Slutty Books, Articles etc. Just rea

So, Here we are. You're in your twenties and your basically stuck right? All your friends are married and either engaged? You don't have your dream job yet and you can't quite find your calling. You probably feel like you're behind because everyone you graduated high school with, seems to have their life together . Maybe, you're depressed because of a recent life change, the thought of failure, or maybe thinking that the future holds nothing for you. Do you cry yourself to sleep at night thinking that maybe God has forgotten about you? Do you REALLY feel the person you're with is just tagging you along for fun? Well, what if I told you that your obviously not alone. All the emotions that your feeling, I can honestly say that there is somebody out there in this big ass world who can relate. Furthermore, there is someone out there who has it so much worse. On another note, if you like to look at shit how I do, this could all be apart of a "GREATER PLAN.&q